My husband and I have been together for 10 years. This is from our first date until now, we've been married almost 4 years. He has never really held me in bed. Is this normal?
It might be normal. I would ask him why. Perhaps, its just a communication issue. Maybe, hes not aware that you are concerned about this. Talk to him and tell him what you are thinking.
Some men aren’t “cuddlers” by nature and he may not be aware that you want him to hold you. Since he probably isn’t a mind-reader, you need to tell him.
It might be normal. I like to snuggle but the wife likes to be alone. I talked to her and she said it just feels smothering. I wish that I had known. Anyway, no holding for her.
Ask him. It is probably normal for him.