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My husband and I have been together for 10 years. This is from our first date until now, we've been married almost 4 years. He has never really held me  in bed. Is this normal? 

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It might be normal.  I would ask him why.  Perhaps, its just a communication issue.  Maybe, hes not aware that you are concerned about this. Talk to him and tell him what you are thinking.

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Some men aren’t “cuddlers” by nature and he may not be aware that you want him to hold you. Since he probably isn’t a mind-reader, you need to tell him. 

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It might be normal.  I like to snuggle but the wife likes to be alone.  I talked to her and she said it just feels smothering.  I wish that I had known.  Anyway, no holding for her.

Ask him.  It is probably normal for him. 

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