Sounds like the typical women that I have known. Lol. For years I thought it was me, but have since concluded, with more evidence, that it was them.
But to your question. I didn't lose my virginity, I gave it away. I had been trying desperately to find some female to take it. I begged them to. I even offered to pay them to take it. And when I was almost 19, an experienced 17 year old girl offered to do it. I think she just felt sympathy for me, but I did talk her into the act repeatedly. Ahhh, those were the days. As I look back it was the golden age of sex. Lasted 3-4 weeks.